Our doubts are traitors

Our doubts are traitors - Shakespeare

How many times you have thought of doing something different, something out of ordinary and your fear has stopped you from doing it? Its too risky, its too fantastic or its ridiculous.  Familiar with the feeling? Our doubts are our traitors.

They stop us from putting trust in a relationship, they stop us from making a career change, they stop us from walking out from a bad relationship, and they stop us from following our dream.

So one should not listen to our inner feeling or don't pay heed to those doubts? Enter in to relationship and get betrayed? Leave our job and loose everything? Wait for the other person to change and be content with what we have?

There is a difference between doubt and an informed decision. If you see red flags right in the begin ing of a relationship, i.e., late coming, not returning calls or messages etc., do stop and think if it is a relationship worth getting into. Do your homework about your dream project before leaving your job. Do think of legal, emotional and financial aspects before you walk out of an abusive relationship. But that will be paying due diligence and not doubting. 

You can take up your hobby on a part time basis and you can have a frank talk about things that upset you in a relationship or you can make a solid base before you leave your job. But don't ever doubt if you can do it or not. If you can think of it, you can do it. Napoleon Hill said, ‘whatever the human mind can conceive, it can achieve'.

So smile, tell your doubts to go out and let hope, joy and confidence come in to take you to a journey of fulfillment.

So be it!!!