Love all, trust few, do wrong to no one

So said the bard. Chanakya says the same thing. Till recently I used to disagree with the statement thinking why I should not trust everyone. But if life has taught me something, it is that not every one is worthy of your trust. Only when they have proved their loyalty and sincererity to you should they be trusted.

Have I become a cynic? No, on the other hand I see good in everyone I meet and I always say that only 10 percent of people are actually evil and so we should not our perspective be guided by that minuscule percentage. But yes there are very few people who would keep your secrets and take them to their grave so to say. Plus keeping someone's secret is a big toll on your mind and not every one has the capacity for that.

Sometime we trust someone and they betray our trust. So you have a valuable lesson there. Don't ever trust them again. But the damage they have caused you will ask. To that I say, people who know you, know who you are and people who don't know you and believe what anyone says about you are not worth making friends.

But then we have to be careful here. We have to use our decoration to love them still but keep them at arm's length and not do any wrong in return. In other words take the high road. Time is a big player and you will be surprised how it comes full circle. Patience is required and that  comes from knowing that you have done no wrong.

 So choose your confidant carefully,  love everyone and do no wrong

So be it!!!