We are what we believe

I got interesting feedback on yesterday’s blog. Most women agreed with me and said they could relate to it. Men, I think, don’t read blogs as such. A few liked it but didn’t comment. One reader asked me if I was going to talk about believing as I had mentioned and here I am.

Most motivational gurus say this. You become what you believe in. They are right. If we fill our mind with negative thoughts, negative things happen to us. If we think positive, positive things happen because the universe always says yes. You all mujst have read, heard and watched this in numerous seminars, books and television shows.

But I am going to say something from totally a woman’s point of view. I want you to do an experiment. Every morning when you get up, look in the mirror and say “oh so many wrinkles on my face, my god my skin is so dry and lined, I am fat or I look old. The first day you do this take a selfie. Repeat the process without the selfieevery day for a week. Take a selfie after a week. You will see a face, which actually has more lines. Believe me.

We become what we believe in. And this is just a very small example.

Now, sit back, take a deep breath and close your eyes and see what you believe what you are. In your mind’s eye. Do it everyday with all your passion. Just believe it and it may take sometime but you will see new avenues opening up for you. But you really have to believe in what you want.

Go ahead and dare to dream.

So be it!!!