‘Words are pistols’

Loaded words, eh? Well Sartre was known for his explosive ideas. But what profound wisdom is there in these words. Ironical.  We always hear, ‘think before you speak’. Once the words are out, they cannot be retrieved, like the arrow out of quiver. However, how many times we actually think before we speak?

I, for one, often put my foot in my mouth. Its because I am very forthright and frequently say things, which can be upsetting. I have improved with age and time but lot needs to be done. I am not rude but cannot tolerate hypocrisy.

There are people who actually take their time to say something and when they say, it’s deliberate. They don’t annoy others and their opinion is valued. Chanakya says, the less you open your mouth, the better it is. I would say open it with few trusted people.

Words can make a relationship and destroy it too. But a word (pun not intended) of caution. Words should be genuine; they should be honest if you are complimenting some one. They should not be empty words. Don’t praise if you don’t mean it. Don’t mislead others with your words. At the same time, take ten deep breaths before you allow you tongue to lash out with harsh words.

One harsh word can leave a life long imprint on a vulnerable heart and mind. So hit the bull with your words but let that pistol be of loving, caring and kind words.

So be it!!!